Today’s guest post is by Mrs. Joanna Santillan.
As the saying goes: “It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey.” And yes, planning is a big part of the journey to a wonderful vacation. Going out on a holiday with the family is an amazing way to bond and make new memories with them. It’s also worth highlighting that the kids won’t stay young for long. So while they’re still kids, plan a vacation or two. Here’s a list of tips when planning a vacation where everyone will enjoy: Continue reading
“What is your name?”
“Come to me, I’ll give you a chocolate!”
“Do you want to play with this red football?, come let’s do it together!”
“Do you know Johnny Johnny Yes Papa!”
These are the regular questions, remarks, comments that a kid often comes across when he meets strangers. Many kids shy away and refuse to answer, hiding behind their mother and many others are more than happy to answer these questions!
Shyness in children and their refusal to socialize easily and comfortably often worries and troubles us. We all ‘secretly’ wish and want our kids to be tagged as a “smart kid” who answers all questions, recites all poems she knows, smiles when she meets people and is comfortable in public places. And it’s not just about our secret wishes and wants but also about the benefit that kids derive from socializing. If they are open to socializing, they:
- Become more independent individuals and open up faster
- Expose themselves to all kind of people in the society and learn the reality of life sooner
- Learn to share with others (Be it their toys, food, books etc.)
- Develop a better understanding of what is right and wrong
- Develop interest in different aspects of life, like arts, sports, people etc.
- Do not grow rigid and gradually learn to adjust with whatever comes their way
- Develop important qualities like having patience; being caring, loving, sacrificing, communicating frankly etc
However, if we put ourselves in the shoes of our kid, we would realize that it is very pressurizing for a child to be the ideal we want her to be. In such a case, we need to help our kids become comfortable with strangers (only to a safe extent) and help them part away with their shyness and refusal to socialize.
Here are a few steps we can take to help our child grow out of the shield of shyness that he holds and shed the cocoon naturally: Continue reading